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Heart & Soles Project

  1. Letter for Heat and Soles Project
  2. Box Poster
  3. How to be an advocate
  4. How to write a letter to your legislator
  5. Address the letter or card correctly
  6. Calling your state legislators office
  7. Checklist for telephone calls and emails
  8. Effective telephone techniques


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   HEART & SOLES

 

May is National Foster Care Month. The Foster Care Association of Oklahoma, Inc. (FCAO) wants to celebrate during this month with everyone who has helped foster children in Oklahoma.  This celebration will be conducted at 10:00 a.m., May 6, 2008 where everyone will rally on the steps of the State Capitol.

The event has been entitled: 
Heart and Soles


Over 14,000 pairs of shoes will be collected and placed on the steps of the Capitol to represent each child in foster care. We invite child advocates, kinship, foster, and adoptive parents as well as all others who have touched the lives of these children to this grand event.

We cannot show the faces of our children, but we can show their shoes!

It is difficult to describe the importance for the need to support foster children.  Our state leaders need to understand that children are our state’s greatest asset and resource.  Legislative priorities need to reflect the importance of supporting children, particularly children in foster care.  FCAO is encouraging you to call your legislators and tell them you want their support for a 25% room and board increase for all foster children -- they need to find the money -- no excuses.  Then invite them to the rally!

Senator Kathleen Wilcoxson has offered to be our legislative partner in this project, keeping her colleagues up to date about the issues we represent and why we are asking for their commitment to foster children in
Oklahoma.

We hope people throughout
Oklahoma who care about children will begin collecting shoes and spread the word about this project.  Just imagine what the Capitol steps will look like covered with 14,000 pairs of shoes, with each pair representing a child in out-of-home placement! 


We started this campaign with one thing in mind -- to bring our foster children to life through shoes. We need your shoes.  We need you at the rally. If you want things to change, take a day off, bring a van load, and make a difference for every child in foster care.  Bring signs covered with painted hearts in support of foster children.  (No signs can be taken inside the Capitol)

We thank everyone who has had a part in this enormous task. God has been our anchor through this one step at a time.

YOU CAN’T
SEE THEIR FACES – BUT YOU CAN SEE THEIR HEARTS & SOLES

 

Foster Care Association of Oklahoma, Inc.

Call for information  405-387-5052

www.fcao.org

 

 


Information Sheet:

  • Distribute the Information letter above to your group or organization
  • Collect Shoes in a box (all sizes, new or used)
  • Put all shoes together with a tie or rubber band.
  • Attach a poster discribing the Heart and Soles Project
  • When you are finished collecting contact a member of the FCAO (contacts listed on website or letter).
  • FCAO will pick up shoes or will set up a meeting place.
  • All advocates who want to make a difference, contact your legislator and set up a meeting to talk to them at the Capitol the day of the project.  If you need a letter on how to speak to your legislators, one will be added to this project page.
  • Anyone who wishes to set up the shoes on the Capitol steps will help the night of the 5th. (time will be given late).
  • All advocates who would like to be a part of this project, be at the Capitol 10:00 a.m. May 6, 2008.
  • Make signs to hold with hearts all over them. (Not allowed to take signs inside capitol).
  • Senator Wilcoxson and other special speakers will be speaking to the media.
  • Represenative Winchester will also be a part of the project.
  • After project shoes will be donated to a charity.

 

 


 

 Heart and Soles Box Sheet               

 


        

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DROP YOUR SHOES OFF HERE

 

Help the Foster Care Association of Oklahoma collect shoes shoesto represent   the 14,000 kids in foster care.

 

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How to Advocate:

How to Advocate

What is advocacy?
Advocacy can be as basic as speaking on behalf of oneself or others to get something done. For example, child advocates Prevent Child Abuse Oklahoma seeks to ensure that the children in Oklahoma have a voice and that their needs are met. This can mean speaking on behalf of children and families to your local community officials, state-level elected officials, or federal policy-makers.

Why should you be an advocate?
The most obvious reason to be a child and family advocate is that you care. You care about Oklahoma's children and want them to be safe, healthy and happy. It follows that you want to help ensure that local, state and federal policy-makers adopt, implement and maintain important policies and programs that support children and families. In order to ensure that these policies and programs are maintained, it is critical to have a sustained, vocal and noticeable presence at all levels of policy-making. You can be part of that presence; and therefore, you can be part of the effort to protect our nation’s children and families.

What can you do as an advocate?
Register to vote: This allows you to identify yourself as a constituent when you talk with your legislator. This means that you are a registered voter in that legislator’s district.

  • Become involved in the issues: Attend public forums and debates to learn about issues and where candidates stand on those issues.
  • Get to know your elected officials: Educate yourself about your elected officials; their committee involvement, voting records, priorities and interests. Read local publications, watch news programs and stay informed.
  • Contact your legislators: Write, call or schedule meetings with legislators to express your views on legislation. Sum up your points clearly and concisely. Bring written materials to leave with your legislator with more detailed information about the issue. If you don’t know the answer to a question that you are asked, offer to follow up and provide the requested information—and always keep your word.
  • Remember to say “thank you”: Follow up with your legislators to express thanks when they have supported legislation that impacts prevention of child maltreatment, even if the bill did not pass. Let them know that you appreciate their efforts. Also, remember to express appreciation to a legislator who is open to meeting with you so you can offer any support or concerns you may have about a proposed bill. Even if the legislator doesn’t support your viewpoint, always follow up with a formal thank you. This gesture also provides an opportunity to mention points that you may have forgotten or to include follow-up material.
  • Identify fellow advocates and partners: Form a coalition along with other organizations that share common goals which can increase your overall power and influence.


 

How to Write a Letter to Your Legislator

The American Library Association gives the following advice on writing to your legislator:

Where possible, use your official letterhead. If this is not appropriate, and you write as an individual, use plain white bond paper, and give your official title following your signature as a means of identification and to indicate your competency to speak on the subject.

"Sincerely yours" is in good taste as a complimentary close. Remember to sign your given name and surname. If you use a title in your signature, be sure to enclose it in parentheses.


DOs

  • Your legislators like to hear opinions from home and want to be kept informed of conditions in the district. Base your letter on your own experiences and observations.
  • If writing about a specific bill, describe it by number or its popular name. Your legislators have thousands of bills before them in the course of a year, and cannot always take time to figure out which one you are referring to.
  • They appreciate intelligent, well-thought-out letters that present a definite position.
  • Even more important and valuable to them is a concrete statement of the reasons for your position--particularly if you are writing about a field in which you have specialized knowledge. Representatives have to vote on many matters with which they have had little or no first-hand experience. Some of the most valuable information they receive comes from facts presented in letters from people who have knowledge in the field.
  • Short letters are almost always best. Members of Congress receive many letters each day, and a long one may not get as prompt a reading as a brief statement.
  • Letters should be timed to arrive while the issue is alive. Members of the committee considering the bill will appreciate having your views while the bill is ripe for study and action.
  • Remember to follow through with a thank-you letter.

DON'Ts

  • Letters that demand votes for or against a certain bill without giving any reasoning are not very influential.
  • Threats of defeat at the next election are not effective.
  • Boasts of how influential the writer is are not helpful.
  • Do not ask for a vote commitment on a particular bill before the committee in charge of the subject has had a chance to hear the evidence and make its report.
  • Form letters or letters that include excerpts from other letters on the same subject are not as influential as a simple letter drawing on your own experience.
  • Congressional courtesy requires legislators to refer letters from non-constituents to the proper offices, so you should generally confine your letter-writing to members of your state's delegation or members of the committee specifically considering a bill.
  • Do not engage in letter writing overkill. Quality, not quantity, is what counts.


Address the letter or card correctly. 

Send it to:

The Honorable "Joe Smith"   
Ohio House of Representatives
77 South High Street
Columbus, Ohio 43266-0603

Or;

The Honorable "Joe Smith"
The Ohio Senate
Statehouse
Columbus, Ohio 43215


Effective Letter Writing Techniques

    ) Writing a letter is more effective than making a phone call.  Positions can be explained in greater detail.  There is also a greater chance that the legislator will see it.  Officials do read representative parts of their mail and often answer letters; they rarely answer their own office phones.

    ) Make sure to address the elected official and your correspondence correctly.  All members of Congress and the Ohio General Assembly, as well as the Governor, may be addressed as "The Honorable First Name, Last Name," followed by their  address.  Senators, both state and U.S., are addressed as "Dear Senator Last Name."  Representatives, both state and U.S., are addressed as "Dear Representative Last Name."

    ) When writing about a particular bill, include the bill number and the title as well as a one-phrase description of the bill's purpose.

    ) State who are and where you live in the first paragraph so it is clear that you are a constituent.  Make sure that you state that you are a member of NAMI and list any other affiliation that would give additional weight to your view (member of your ADAMH/CMH Board or an agency board; mental health professional; local official; etc.)  This helps establish your credibility on the issue that you are writing about. 

    ) Tie the issue to the larger needs of the community.  Make sure you explain the long-term benefits to the entire district.  As an example, you could supply your legislator with statistics that address the prevalence of untreated mental health issues in the populations and suggest that cutting treatment options would hurt the larger community as access is limited.

    ) Ask for a response letter with the legislator's position on this particular bill or issue.

    ) Include your name, street address, e-mail address and phone number with area code.

    ) Double-check the spelling of the legislator's name.

Keep letters brief and to the point.  Try to cover only one subject.  Send a typed or legible, handwritten letter on your own stationery.  Legislators recognize form or copied letters and don't pay much attention to them.  Use letterhead if your position or affiliation lends credibility to your message.  Always sign your name in ink.  Mention any personal relationships, history of support, or connection to the legislator beyond being a constituent.  Grammar, form, and spelling aren't as important as legibility.

Write in time to register your opinion before action is taken.  Refer to the bill by number and describe it briefly.  Explain how you feel about it and tell your legislator whether you want him to vote for it, against it, or work on an amendment.  Include pertinent editorials from your local paper supporting your position.

If you have specialized knowledge, share it with the legislator.  He/she will appreciate expert information passed on to them regarding an issue that they may not have dealt with before.  Be constructive by telling how a bill can be improved rather than merely criticizing; and if a legislator does vote your way, write and say "thanks" or "well done."

Be modest and do not pretend to have vast influence.  However, identify yourself as a NAMI member so you can show a broader support for your position.  Definitely refrain from threatening or intimidating remarks.  Do avoid antagonizing; tell why you disagree, refraining from outright or veiled hints that you may vote against them.

Ask for a response

    # How will he/she vote on this issue?

    # How does he/she feel about this issue?

    # What information does he/she have about this issue?

    # Is there something you can do to help the legislator understand the issue better? (e.g., make a contact, arrange a visit to your mental health center or affiliate meeting, get specific information or a position paper)

    # Why did he/she not support a given issue when the vote was taken?

A postcard saying, "I hope you will be able to support HB 33, Mental Health Parity" is better than no correspondence at all.

Remember to write your legislator when he/she does something right as well as when he/she does something you don't like.

Send a copy of your letter and, later, the response to the NAMI Ohio offices.


Calling Your State Legislator's Office

It is likely that when you call the legislator's Columbus office, you will speak to the legislator's legislative aide or administrative assistant.  Remember – Always be courteous to the staff members.  A legislator's staff is the entry point to direct communication with your senator or representative.  They can  help you or hurt you so show them the same personal and professional respect you would demand of others. 

When calling your legislator's office, ask for the names of the staff and develop a relationship with them.  Because legislators are so busy attending committee hearings and general sessions, the staff will often take care of your inquiries.  In addition, developing a positive personal and professional relationship with the legislator's staff can vault your phone messages to the top of a large pile, your requests may be addressed in a more timely fashion and your phone call may be the first to be directly referred to the legislator if he/she is available.  Remember - It is always more pleasant for you to deal with others who are friendly.  Legislators and staff have that same attitude.  

If you do not know your legislator before your first contact to discuss legislative issues, remember these communication tips:

    Ø Identify yourself and let the legislator or staff know you are from the legislator's district

    Ø Clearly identify yourself as being a member of NAMI and tell the legislator a little about what your NAMI affiliate does in your community

    Ø Be up front about the legislative issue that you are calling about – state the issue and your position

    Ø If you are not familiar with the legislative process, don't be afraid to admit it.  Legislators are not familiar with how your affiliate operates.  That makes you even, so tell the legislator that you are representing NAMI and would like to provide important information that will help him/her understand the issue

    Ø Ask the legislator if there is an opportunity to meet with other NAMI members in your community the next time they are in the district and offer to set up a meeting

    Ø Always leave a phone number where the legislator can return your call

The hardest part of getting to know and establishing a relationship with a legislator is the initial phone call or meeting.  Once you can put the legislator at ease and convince him/her that you are there to educate and inform, a relationship will easily develop.

Don't be offended if the legislator does not return your call  immediately.  With all the activities going on at the statehouse, legislators often cannot get to constituent requests until late in the day.  Don't be surprised to receive a phone call from the legislator at home in the evening.  Even if the legislator does not return your call within a few days, be patient (unless the bill is coming to a vote quickly.)  Place another call to the legislator's office and remind staff that you recently called and would like an opportunity  to discuss an important issue.  You should take this opportunity to state your position to the staff so that if the legislator is required to vote this bill before talking to you, at least your message will be on record.  Gentle repetition in contacting a legislator is important.  Be persistent.

Once you make contact with the legislator, clearly explain your issue and how the issue affects you, your family, your community and the legislator's constituents.  Putting a broad issue in a local perspective so the legislator can learn how the people who vote are affected is a very useful communication tool.

Invite the legislator to your affiliate's next meeting so he/she can see and hear first hand testimony from constituents in the district that are experts on this issue.  Once of the best communication and education tools is placing the legislator in your affiliate's meeting environment so he/she can view your day-to-day issues and hear how the families in your community are affected.  Use this opportunity to introduce the legislator to the key volunteers of your affiliate.  Now your legislator has a better feel for NAMI, its members and its issues.

Once you establish a relationship with your legislator, volunteer your time to help him/her on a project or campaign activity.  NAMI volunteers have many significant demands on their time, but one of the best ways to get to know a legislator is by volunteering your time  to help them get re-elected.  Volunteer to pass out campaign literature, hold a local fundraiser, operate a phone bank or put a sign in your yard.  At a local fundraiser, the amount of money you raise for the legislator is not the focal point of the event.  Invite twenty of your neighbors and friends and ask them to donate $25 per person to attend a tea with the legislator.  Make sure you have members of your NAMI affiliate

in attendance to help deliver the message about  how NAMI has helped their families.  Your legislator will recognize your efforts and your relationship will grow.

Don't just contact your legislator when you need something from him/her.  Isn't it annoying when the only time you hear from a friend or relative is when they need something?  Legislators feel the same way.  Part of any successful effort is to establish a relationship with a legislator means picking up the phone just to inform him/her of a community event or  give them an update on a program your affiliate is providing.  It doesn't always have to be about needing something.

Repetition, repetition, repetition.  In real estate, the old adage is "location, location, location."  In building a successful grassroots advocacy program, repetition is the key.  Organize local members to send letters and make phone calls to your legislator.  Volumes of letters and calls can escalate an issue that may not be at the top of your legislator's agenda.  If you can demonstrate that an issue is important to many voters, then it will also be important to your legislator.  Your grassroots program is successful when you can make your priorities a legislator's priorities.

The ultimate goal of building a relationship with your legislator is having the legislator call you to ask your opinion on a piece of legislation that involves NAMI.  Good legislators establish "information banks" of constituents in their  districts upon which they rely for education and information.  The goal of NAMI's grassroots program is to become the "voice on mental illness" in your community and to have a legislator that acknowledges that.

Personalize all letters to a legislator.  Legislators tend to pay attention and respond to constituent letters that are personalized.  Legislators receive a large volume of mail, some of which are form letters containing a standard message with individual  signatures.  These form letters simply do not have the same effectiveness as those from constituents who are willing to share their own stories.  Correspondence that conveys a personal message to a legislator is very effective because it enables a legislator to take someone else's personal experience and use it in his or her job as constituent advocate in the Ohio General Assembly.

Above all else, don't be afraid of your legislator.  Legislators can be intimidating because of  their importance in our government, but the bottom line is that they need easy access to the people they serve.  They represent us and need to hear from us and, in fact, rely on us to ensure that they are doing their job as our spokesperson in Columbus.

Checklist for telephone calls and emails

Lobbying by telephone can be effective if the issue you want to be heard on is moving too fast for any other type of communication.  Sometimes it happens that very important amendments get attached to bills that you have no interest in and there is no warning that an amendment you oppose might get introduced at that time.  In this case, phone calls and e-mails are all you have to communicate your feelings on the proposal.

Phone calls should be made with the understanding that you must communicate your position in as little time as possible.  Most legislators' offices keep a running tally on hot issues and sheer numbers do count.  When calling a legislator in these situations, be prepared to simply state that you are very concerned about the pending action and would strongly urge the member to vote accordingly.  In these cases, staff merely records a call in support of opposition of the issue and the legislator uses these numbers to gauge voter preference.

E-mails can be effective in these rush-to-action votes.  However, not all legislators have or use their e-mail accounts.  Where  these e-mail addresses are available, they should be used the same way – only when there is no time for a hand-written letter.  These e-mail messages should also be brief and to the point.  Most legislators discount an e-mail because it is so easy to forward and copy and doesn't carry the weight of a well-thought out letter.

Effective Telephoning Techniques

Phone calls are an easy way to let legislators know what you think.  The effectiveness of phone calls varies from legislator to legislator.  In general, they are not as effective as letters, but are important when time is a major factor.  A phone call is much better than nothing at all.

The following are some pointers for making phone calls to legislators:

    Ø Clearly state your name and where you live so the legislator's staff member knows that you are from the district.

    Ø Be prepared to make your point in several sentences.  If you are calling about a specific bill it is helpful to know the number of the bill.

    Ø The staff member answering the phone is making brief notes about the subject of your call and your opinion.  If you have something to say that cannot be said in several sentences, write a letter.

    Ø Ask for a response that includes the legislator's position on the issue.

    Ø Realize that the staff member answering the phone may have been  instructed not to make detailed comments about the issues, this is done in letters, so that the legislator's position is not misrepresented.

    Ø Try to get as specific answer as you can either by phone or in writing.

    Ø Follow-up with a letter if possible, mail, fax or e-mail it to the legislator's office.

Record the name of the legislator's aides and their direct phone numbers if available.  Keep track of your calls and correspondence, make follow-up calls if you do not receive timely replies.